When to move on after the death of a pet

Hi Cheryl
Sorry for your loss. I know what that feels like, my bulldog died 2 weeks before her 10th birthday. I was truely devastated. I actually got on a pet chat I believe was petloss.com (I think). I mainly just got on and watched what other people said and jumped in periodically, as no one really knows the depth of the loss we feel except other people that loved and lost a pet too. For me, that helped.
After 5 months, I decided I wanted to get another dog, as I truely felt I gave my dog a great life, and wanted that companionship again. But for me, I had to do the extreme opposite, had to be another color, breed, sex,etc. You will soon see Cheryl that once your new cats personality shows through, that they are not a replacement but an addition and you will love it the same if not more. THere are so many animals left out there to love, people like us are their hope. Dont feel guilty, just take one day at a time.
Hope that helps

Sexy Confidence

Confidence comes with loving the body your in. No way around it. So if you dont love it, change it...for you. Dont like exercise, then walk. Not only can you lose pounds, but there's nothing like a tight butt.
When your down, pamper yourself, get a facial, paint your toes, poof your hair, or wear sexy shoes. You cant help but to feel confident and once you feel confident there's nothing you cant accomplish. So get out there ladies, love your bodies and if you dont, be your own best friend and go for a walk and STRUT!

True Committment

IN a relationship anyone can say I do, but do they? I did, and I didnt. What that means is to me, in my experience, committment is the key to a solid relationship. I am truely committed now to someone that I am willing to accept any fault that comes along with him. Example: Leaving a wet towel on the end of the bed. A non committed person would respond by flipping out that theres a wet towel on the bed and pointing out where it belongs and probably holding in anger and resentment as to this slob living with them. A truely committed person, the responce is, yes they are living with a slob, but feel that they would rather have that wet towel on their bed then on any other....and just pick it up. THose are the two different emotions I felt being married and now committed to someone. That along with accepting his faults, he accepts mine and I am free to express my faults with no fear. That is truly exhilarating. I fear marriage today is something to do, and everyone is out for themselves and want to point out or change their partners way of being, therefore, so many divorces. My advice, find out their faults, love them for them and go for the ride, look out the window, and dont complain and dont fear showing them yours.

Loss of someone special

Everyone experiences loss. The experience is different in everycase. I have lost a child by a miscarraige, I have lost my mother, I have lost my most favorite pet who was like my child, and of course there was the loss of my marriage. All with very different emotions. Life goes on, never the same, but sometimes for the better and sometimes like a whole new life... Please leave comments or email your questions to coykat2008@yahoo.com

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