Sunday, April 27, 2008
True Committment
IN a relationship anyone can say I do, but do they? I did, and I didnt. What that means is to me, in my experience, committment is the key to a solid relationship. I am truely committed now to someone that I am willing to accept any fault that comes along with him. Example: Leaving a wet towel on the end of the bed. A non committed person would respond by flipping out that theres a wet towel on the bed and pointing out where it belongs and probably holding in anger and resentment as to this slob living with them. A truely committed person, the responce is, yes they are living with a slob, but feel that they would rather have that wet towel on their bed then on any other....and just pick it up. THose are the two different emotions I felt being married and now committed to someone. That along with accepting his faults, he accepts mine and I am free to express my faults with no fear. That is truly exhilarating. I fear marriage today is something to do, and everyone is out for themselves and want to point out or change their partners way of being, therefore, so many divorces. My advice, find out their faults, love them for them and go for the ride, look out the window, and dont complain and dont fear showing them yours.
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